December 21, 2009

She Could Be A Farmer In Those Clothes

Lets talk about it...shall we?!!!
The dirty truth about what's sexy to you and many others.

Don't be embarassed...don't stop reading...
We ALL secretly try to be such...
Putting our best foot forward and looking great.



In today's society it's more and more looked upon...
To be that fresh faced girl...stick thin and tan.
Well folks...we aren't barbie dolls...we're real NOT plastic.
Our weight fluctuates...we break out...have bad hair days...
Fashion faux paus...etc...you get the idea.

When did sexy turn into such a staple?!!!


{RIP Brittany via Google}

The girl next door...the one who wears jeans and a t-shirt...
Has glasses and is educated...this is sexy to me.
One who is confident in who they are...
Knows where they want to go...in life and spiritually!!!

Beauty is only skin deep...confidence lasts a lifetime.

" I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people
said, than regretting not doing what my heart led me to and
wondering what life had been like if i'd just been myself."
- Brittany Renee

35 comments:

~KS said...

Such a beautiful picture of Brittany... I am still in shock she is gone, so young. Life is just too short.
And you look beautiful- I know it's silly, but to me sweats and a ponytail is sexy because it's comfortable... and to me, there's nothing sexier than someone who is comfortable in their in own skin :)

Fleur said...

I was totally shocked when I heard she died! I agree about whaat's sexy. I never feel sexy in beautiful dress and with beautifull hair if I don't feel comfortable.

~ Kelly Ann ♥ said...

Lovely-post- great pic of you!

I just love that photo of Brittany--- RIP
She will be missed-

Happy Holidays

DT said...

great post . love it

Seyma said...

wow great post Aubrey!!! love the way you talk about "sexy-ness" and "being comfortable" with oneself..

wish i could be one of those sexy and confident girls.. but hell no!! i don' think so..

love.xoxo

DeDe said...

Thank you for reminding me that I don't have to go to the best stores to still be sexy. Jeans and a hooded sweatshirt are a staple for me. Believe it or not, I may wear make up only three times in a month. That is just not me! However, I do envy those women who look so put together :)

meredith said...

love this post. and i feel sexiest in a pair of my fave jeans and a white t-shirt :)

Lydia said...

Such a touching post & so true. Thank you for such a great reminder to all of us girls who get caught up in the small things & sometime forget what it's all about.

Ashley said...

So true- confidence is sexy! Great picture of you both.

Adorably Distracted... said...

totally agree on the sexiness! I think that someone who is themselves is sexier then tons of makeup and designer clothes!

Nahl said...

Definitely someone who knows what they're all about. That's sexiness to me.
RIP Brittany. That's a beautiful pic.

Rasha (andthisiswhatshesaid) said...

Loving this. I agree.

You both look gorgeous. I love her.

Britters said...

::Sigh:: this is so sad. That is an amazing picture too by the way of you and her. :) Have a good day girly!

"Julie" said...

you are so photogenic! Love that picture of BM too, so sad for her family and loved ones.

Hanako66 said...

yes, i agree

her life was far too short!

you look stunning:)

Allison said...

This is such a beautiful post, Aubrey! And that picture of Brittany is just beautiful...it is so sad that her life has been cut so short!
You look absolutely beautiful too.
I'd like to think that sexy is more than just having huge boobs and showing them off at every instance - because I will never be that girl =) I'd rather someone find my sexy when I'm dressed down, rather than have to try to perfect the ideal smokey eye every single day! =)
I hope everything with you is going well, and I'll talk to you soon!

Shandal said...

Great post and of course you're picture perfect gorgeous!

Jenn said...

see - you can say those things because you ARE stick thin & tan ;)

kidding kidding (sort of).

sexy to me is confidence. if you're comfortable with who you are, and you genuinely love yourself...you will just be sexy without trying!

Couture Carrie said...

Lovely quote and pics... RIP BM.

xoxox,
CC

Jennifer said...

Thank you for giving me something to think about...

Mara said...

what a great picture of both of you. It's really shocking and so sad. Life should never end that young. Great post Aubrey xox

Simply Mel said...

sexy is definitely all about confidence and being secure with who you are inside and out!

Working Mommy said...

The entertainment world definitely lost a great asset today when Brit passed...she will be missed!

~WM

kimber doll said...

Aww, I can't believe she passed away. It's a beautiful pic, though and your rendition is just as pretty =)

Blair said...

Beautiful pictures! I am so sad about Brittany! She was such a great actress.

xoxo,
Blair

Tara Gibson said...

GORGEOUS GIRL! what a great post

JMay said...

Great post.

Love your lil blog :-)

Rachel said...

this was a great post.

I personally believe a girl can to wear baggy sweats, oversized plaid shirts, glasses, talk book smart and still be oh so sexy =] lovely photo

Geez Louise♥ said...

I have missed your amazing, inspiring post. This is absolutely amazing thank you! You look gorgeous! And so does Brittany!

Elizabeth Marie said...

Awww this made me sad. I adored her. You're so right about the pressure thing.xo

Nikolett said...

Such a beautiful photo of both you and Brittany ... I was honestly shocked when I heard that she died :(

But I totally understand what you mean. 'Sexy' is one of those terms that is used to describe something in society that hardly anyone is and people kill themselves to strive to be that version of 'sexy.' I'd much rather be that girl next door, for sure!

Sweet Nothings said...

so sad.

Kristin said...

So so tragic is her death! It took me way to long to be comfortable in my own skin. If I have a daughter someday, I hope she finds her confidence much sooner!

stilettolover91 said...

RIP Brittany :(

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Secretia said...

Going braless and pressing against men is my secret sexy thrill.

Secretia