HE SAID...SHE SAID:
The trouble these days amongst others...
Is that of gossip.
{Words spread that are false and untrue}
To have a friend...colleague...family member...
Believe such lies is awful.
Even more so to see that they believe the rumor.
These people should know better...
That you would never say or do such things.
How come they don't come to you first???
{Ashley Olsen via Google}
Perhaps it's because society thrives on drama...
A good JUICY story to stir things up.
Whatever be the case...IT IS WRONG!!!
And as such...confrontation soon ensues.
It can be tough...but getting to the bottom of it...
You SHOULD and have every right.
"While gossip among women is universally
ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men,
especially if it is about women, is called theory,
or idea, or fact."
- Andrea Dworkin
38 comments:
oh so true! Hope you have a great day! = )
im hearing ashley tisdales song in my head as i type this :) but you're so right and the worst feeling in the world is finding out a friend believes a rumor about you..or worst yet started it. i had a "best" friend all through highschool who would say the worst things about me and other girls behind our back. she was that queen bee type who would somehow manage to get everyone against you, so you felt so alone. ugh so glad hs is over, those were horrible times! wel on a happier note i hope you have a great week beautiful!! xoxo
oh man! This topic hits home. I seriously wish some people I know would get the hint and grow up.
Great post!
Ooh gossip & drama sure stinks! But remember, truth prevails! :)
The same could be said for celebrity gossip. For some reason, our culture thrives on believing the worst. Ugh.
you are SOOOO georg!!!!!!
PS... I just sent you a email!! :)
Gossip is inevitable in every facet of life. It sucks, why can't people just mind their own business. Hope you had a good weekend otherwise!
Very true. Rumors are not good at all and al they do is end up hurting yourself in the end.. Good post!
had a run in with this issue this weekend, some people do just need to act their age. i was hurt this weekend by someone really close to me about something from over 2 years ago. the past is the past...time to live in the present ;)
anywho...you look beautiful in the photo :) hope you had a great weekend luv! xo
girl i know what you mean! its amazing how jealous and despitful people can be!
Very very true!! I hate drama!
Amen to this!
Happy Monday, lovely.
Jimmy is actually dealing with this issue at his office...and it's so hurtful.
It breaks my heart, especially when girls do it to other girls. We should be sticking together and building each other up.
YOU ARE GORGEOUS! and look like the Olsen's triplet.
Seriously gorgeous look on you.
but aubrey, you always are so pretty!!!!
I haven't dealt with gossip since Lord knows when and I don't miss it.
Hope you have a great day :)
So, so true... once I left high school, I really did think that the drama and gossip was over, but I feel like when you get a bunch of insecure girls together sometimes they have nothing better to do than make fun of others, or try to start something. And even now, when it's not high school, and I am more secure in myself, it still hurts, you know?
Ugh, I wish women would just empower each other, instead of trying to tear each other down...
This was a great post, Aubrey!
Soo very true! Some people never learn when it's time to grow up or know when not to cross the line!
You look gorgeous as ever!
Gossip is a sign of jealousy to me!!! People need to stick to their own business and lives, right?!?!?!
I think we all thrive on drama a little too much and it sucks and can be so hurtful. It's so easy to get sucked in but I TRY to leave the drama for Gossip Girl ha. Happy monday!!
I love that quote. It is so so true. Why do women always feel the need to gossip...i swear it is what some of them feed upon to fuel their day. I hope no one ever brings you down. Keep your chin up and your head held high...that will really give them something to talk about.
i had to deal with that couple years ago for the first time. it wasn't nice at all!
it's just unfair! but that's also when you see the people who know you and trust you...
gossip is so terrible! it hurts so many people and it's so unproductive. hopefully the good friends will believe you though.
xox
It is so true. I thought when i was out of high school it would ease up a bit, but I think it has gotten so much worse as I have gotten older. People need to realize what they are saying before opening their mouth.
BTW, I left you a little award on my bloggy.
Oh I hate gossipy girls, that is a major, major pet peeve of mine. Some people seriously want to live in a soap opera. I hate it.
I hope things sort themselves out for you, hon!
so true!
it feels horrible!!
YES I LOVE LOVE LOVE that you posted an Olsen. I knew you'd be on board.
Hope you're doing well. I bet you and the kids are super excited for the hubs to come home. Miss you!
Love your Blog! Following you now!
Great Post. Very very true lady!!!!
Geez Louise
Ugh... I HATE gossip. I hated it so much that when I was a sales manager, I made sure everyone who worked for me knew how much I hated it... and that if I knew one of them was spreading false things about a coworker, I would fire them. Yup... it's that serious to me.
Um, I hate drama! I think we had this convo while you were curling my hair that day!!! Im with you friend!!
that quote is making me so mad! probably because it is dead right!!!!
girl, i am going though this RIGHT NOW at work. UGH. it sucks soooo bad. and it sucks worse when people believe this crap. xoxo. i hope things turn around.
p.s. you're like a thousand times hotter than ashley olsen.
Good Juicy Story is working here tonite!
Secretia (Secret Story Time)
gossip is inevitable and if people believe it then let them. i have realized that it doesn't matter what they think. i know the truth and that's all that matters.
very true girlfriend. very true. reading that made me realize how i can do that to others that i care about and i shouldnt bc i hate it when others do that to me.
thanks for that! i needed it :)
you are super gorgeous as always in that pic!
That is so true it just makes things worst when its not true and people believe them! :(
& and worst thing is, that once a bad rumor is said its like blown leaves you cant go and pick every single 1 up! So even when people take things back "Its never really taken back Completely!!
no gossip....no drama i try my best ot saty away
girl, I am so glad you wrote this! I don't know how but somehow you always end up writing something exactly when I need to hear it! You have a gift! LOL.
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