Don't Tease If Ya Can't Please....

Out and about...minding your own business...

When a certain someone starts flirting!!!

Now this folks...is an art that NOT all can master.
It is something that can make you smile...
Or it could have the opposite effect entirely.
{It all depends on how it is presented to you}
These attempts shall i say...and YES i said attempts...
Simply because...well...that's just what they are.
Whether you choose to take the bait is up to you...
Because remember we're all just fish in a big sea...

And everyone deserves a fishytale ending!!!

{Lol...fairytale if you didn't get that}


{Just keep swimming...swimming...via We Heart It}

Now with this being said...who says that the men...
Must always be the ones to make the first move?


{Aww...i LOVE post-it notes...via Google}

I believe that us women are just as much capable of doing so.
We're strong...confident and look great in heels!!!
Not to mention it is up to us to get their attention first...

How else do you think we reel in our catch?

"There are times NOT to flirt:
When you're sick...when you're with children...
And when you're on the witness stand."
- Joyce Jillson

And I Think To Myself....

I think it's time i'm honest...clear {crystal}...
And truthful...a slam-dunk shall i say!!!

My life isn't perfect...nor do i want it to be.

I enjoy the challenges that are thrown at me :)-

For it is these obstacles that keeps us on our toes...

And have us perfecting ourselves for what's to come.

I still choose NOT to share about what's happening...

BUT...I will say that each day brings new hope.

To find that which i'm searching for...I PRAY...
To remain confident and strong...I MUST...
To learn to love again...I WILL.

{All photos via We Heart It}

"Be aware of wonder. Live a balanced life -
learn some and think some and draw and paint
and sing and dance and play and work everyday some."

- Robert Fulghum

Capture The Moment....

The joy of pictures that is...
Taking quite a few...having many...MANY bloopers...
And making sure all is perfect!!!

Friends i must confess that i am OCD on this and i'm...
Completely and utterly obsessed with getting it right.
Making sure the outfit is perfect...the hair is done...
The lighting is just right...and the pose...well...
That just gets captures with a snap of a button.

However this came to be i'm not quite sure...BUT...
It's quite the chore/task when it presents itself.

{I'm learning to recycle}

THIS here pose....{simple pose it looks to be}...

{Ashley Olsen via Google}

Had me deleting 34 takes...putting in 12 bobby-pins...

4 empty soda cans...3 hair clips and one hair rubberband.

Ohhh...and lets not forget i had to spray the bangs down...

With lots and LOTS of "hard hold" hairspray via Bed Head!!!

{Can you believe it ONLY took 10 minutes to do all this?}

This routine or so it seems is automatic...BUT...

As in life, you can't control that which will occur...

Or happen per say...SO...

With this being said...i'm challenging myself...

To go with the flow and take it as it comes.

The BEST things in life happen by chance and aren't forced.

P.S. The winner of my winter giveaway is...

#6...a true rose y'all...congrats K Law!!!

"Nothing in life is to be feared.
It is only to be understood."
- Marie Curie

Love At First Sight....

These frames that many of us need...have to wear...
Choose NOT to wear {this is me folks}...
Have an intelligence about them once worn.

The sophistication that is spectacles!!!

{On the days i choose to see}

Whatever this voodoo magic may be...i LUV it to pieces!!!
People perceive you in a different way...
And NO...i'm NOT talking about Urkle folks.


{Did I do that???...via Google}

There is an aura that comes across as intelligent...
Classy...well spoken...grown up...sexy & mannered.



Why else would my kids want to own a pair?!!! Lol

P.S. Don't forget about my GIVEAWAY!!!

"Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you're
riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind.
Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your
thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!"
- Bob Marley

Happiness and love are just a choice away....

Life is full of choices...MANY in fact.

So many that it makes my head hurt thinking about it.

{via Google}

- choose your thoughts for they become words

- choose your words for they become actions

- choose your actions for they become habits

- choose your habits for they become character

- choose your character for it becomes your destiny

{via The Choice Driven}

Do what you believe in and the rest will follow!!!

P.S. Don't forget about my GIVEAWAY...

I announce the winner on Nov. 9th

"It is our choices that show what we truly are,

far more than our abilities."

- Joanne Kathleen Rowling

You Get What You Give...So Give Good

Why is it so that when you're in a down-in-out state...

That your goals are seen clearer than ever before?

It hits you HARD & makes you realize times a tickin'

So what'cha gonna do about it huh...HUH?!!!

I'm going to...............

Drop it like a bomb and tell someone something...

Something i've been dying to say for almost 2 years now.

May my words come to me when i need them the most...

And not let me choke and shake like a leaf.

{via We Heart It}

I've had this conversation in my head a million times...

Played out like a broken record...over and over again.

This decision was a tough one to finally realize...BUT...

I know that it will be for the best.

Putting a small piece of my shattered heart in place...

Finally grasping that i MUST do this for myself.

"I'd rather be mad with the truth than sane with lies."

- Anon

Life Isn't Measured By The Breaths We Take

DESTINY...one single word that means so much!!!

To many...most...myself...i believe it exists.
Fate lies in ourselves as to who...what...
That which path we decide to take and become.


{via We Heart It}

These next few days...weeks...months...
I've got A LOT of thinking to do.
The road may be tough...but it won't get me down.
It's what comes next that remains.
I will try my hardest to stay positive...
As i know MANY days i won't be.

See...my heart isn't here...it's in a few pieces...
And i need to find out why...sort some things out.


{via Flickr}

Friends i know i'm being vague...
It's just how i am...SORRY!!!
I wish i could tell y'all...but i can't :(
Some things just need to remain within myself...
Not shared...not revealed...hidden.

We all have our secrets & at times it's best to not answer...
Not give in to them & be strong...this is one of those times.


{via We Heart It}

I hope some of this...any of this makes some sense...
Because to me...i'm just typing away the best i can.
Trying to get through THIS post...THIS day...
And onto the next the only way i know how.

I've got to make some changes...life changes...
Things that make you go hmmm!!!

"I cannot say whether things will get better if
we change; what i can say is they must change
if they are to get better."
- Georg Christoph Lichtenberg

Laughter Makes Everything Better....

Hey folks...got some things changing...

And with that i need this...trust me on this one.

So...with no explanation...i'm gonna...
Change "Freaky Fridays" to "Funny Fridays".
See...I always enjoyed reading the comics on Sundays...
And well...since i don't subscribe to get the paper...
I'm gonna make my own funnies here for you :)-


{My friends are more supportive than hers...Lol}

Hope y'all don't mind...i need a good laugh right now :)-


{What's new pussycat?}

Until further notice funny photos you WILL find...
From here on out each Friday!!!


{Think he's got a black belt?!!!}

Hoist on your depends...cause you're gonna need them.
Laugh...cry...pee your pants silly...i dare you.

P.S. Don't forget about my GIVEAWAY!!!

"Laughter is higher than all pain."
- Elbert Hubbard